Become a better listener.

Share negative emotions without attacking your spouse.

Figure out together how you want to handle anger in your relationship.

Learn to recognize bitterness, resentment and its negative impact on your relationship.

Understand and apply the power of forgiveness.

Create agreements on how you will process conflict.

Develop a problem-solving process for those problems where there is "no solution."

Appreciate and work with your personality differences.

Develop a more intimate relationship.

Create plans for future growth together.